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I have written a few articles about the Forgiveness of God now. If you have not read them you can read them here:

Forgiveness of God

Some people may read these things and still not be convinced that sin was taken care of on Calvary and everyone’s sins were paid for (meaning completely forgiven). This is going to be a short article just asking a couple of questions. I want you to search and find the answers to these in the word of God.

Here are the questions:

1) When do you think your sins were forgiven?

For most people the answer to this question is “when I asked him to forgive me.”

2) Why do you think your sins are forgiven?

Most would say to this question that they are forgiven because they asked him to forgive. I want to know why you think he forgave you when you asked. If I asked you that you should say, “Because Christ died for my sins”. Christ died for you sins before you asked him to forgive you. So this leads me to another question:

3) Why did God not forgive you before you asked?

If the reason God forgave is because Christ died for your sins, then why must God wait on you to ask him? The work of Christ concerning Salvation is finished; it has been for two thousand years. If “the Lord hath laid on him the iniquities of us all” (Isaiah 53: 6), then how would God be just in not forgiving those iniquities laid on Christ. If God were to punish the same iniquities twice, would he be just? “NO”. That would be like giving you two speeding tickets for one violation. God because of his perfect justice cannot punish my sin or yours twice. He judged it in the body of Christ so can he judge it in you? NO he cannot. I have one last question.

4) Will you believe it?

The Bible paints a bloody picture of the payment for sin. God the Father beat his only begotten Son to death. Isaiah 53 says that it pleased God to do it. God hates sin so much that he chose to kill his Son, Jesus Christ, in order to pay for it. John 4:10 says that the Samaritan woman had to know two things to be saved: who Christ is and what the gift of God is. If you think you are saved you must question yourself, after all Paul did tell the Corinthians to examine themselves. What did I know when I made my profession? Did I know who Christ really is? Did I know that the gift of God is forgiveness of sins (for Christ’s sake, not because I asked)? Did I think that I could earn salvation?

Many people say a prayer and tell God that they know there is nothing they can do to be saved. The funny thing is that when the are praying that prayer, they are doing something to be saved. They think they are saved because they prayed. That is a big misunderstanding that is sending people to hell. If you think that what you do (works) gets you into heaven, then you are not truly resting in the finished work of Christ; you are resting in your works. Thinking that a prayer will get you into heaven is no different than thinking that giving to the poor will get you into heaven. Both are good works, but neither merit heaven. “For to him that worketh it is no longer grace…” (Romans 4:4) and “by grace are ye saved through faith, not of works”. If your claim to heaven is in what you said, did, or felt, then it is not by grace and you will find out the hard way unless you change your mind about how you view salvation.

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“He who knows nothing loves nothing. He who can do nothing understands nothing. He who understands nothing is worthless. But he who understands also loves, notices, sees….The more knowledge is inherent in a thing, the greater the love….Anyone who imagines that all fruits ripen at the same time as the strawberries knows nothing about grapes.” Paracelsus

The question here is what do you know about love? Are you as one who knows nothing and is therefore worthless? He who knows nothing knoweth not that he knoweth nothing…

Is love a feeling? Are the senses the determiner of love or the mind? Is love a work? The ideas here in this first part are in a large part taken from Erich Fromm’s work ” The Art of Loving.” Whether he knew Christ in a personal relationship or not, one cannot be certain but he did have a conservative and moral thought pattern. He understood the Scriptures and uses it quite frequently in this book. His work on love should go down in history as one of the most comprehensive books on the subject. His thoughts have been priceless to the problem of love. With this laid down we will continue to try and understand this thing we call love. Fromm states that first of all there are several faulty premises which most people have concerning the problem of love.

1. “Most people see the problem of love primarily as that of being loved, rather than that of loving, of one’s capacity to love.” Therefore the action they take is how to be the object of love. How can they become lovable? Men try and become strong, successful, rich, influential. Men figure that if they can be someone, have an identity of power, they will succeed in gaining love. Women on the other hand seek to become attractive. Now men do that as well in todays society due to the unisex push. They wish to be an object of beauty, something the other sex will seek after. Attention becomes affection, and many times it is but at the same time affection does not always equal love. Attractive is the key. ” As a matter of fact, what most people in our culture mean by being lovable is essentially, a mixture between being popular and having sex appeal.”

2. “…the problem of love is the problem of an object, not the problem of faculty.” Fromm here explains mans warped view of love in that people now are more concerned with the importance of the object of love rather than the function.” In past cultures, that have been that way for millenia, a prearranged marriage was the norm. Matchmakers were involved, parents, social considerations, with little respect to the feelings of the couple to be joined together. Love was supposed to develop afterward not before. In our capitalistic culture we are consumed with the (consumer effect). We want to get the best quality for our money at the least possible cost. We are looking for an attractive package. “For the man an attractive girl - and for the woman an attractive man - are the prizes they are after. ‘Attractive’ usually means a nice package of qualities which are popular and sought after on the personality market.”

3. The third problem lies here…”in the confusion between the initial experience of falling in love, and the permanent state of being in love, or as we might say, of ’standing’ in love. If two people who have been strangers, as all of us are, suddenly let the wall between them break down, and feel close, feel one, this moment of oneness is one of the most exhilarating, most exciting experiences in life.” Those who have been shut off from love experience this excitement twofold. The power of sudden intimacy is many times consummated and or caused by sexual action. This can add even more to the heightened sense of ecstasy. However this type of closeness is at best short lived. It has not the fundamental seed by which to stand on. Instead it is like a beautiful cut rose, in all its glory, velvet to the touch, nectar to the nose, dead and brittle by the next week. The individuals involved become then better acquainted with the thorny side. As in the rose, once the petals fall all that is left is the thorns. ” The two persons become well acquainted, their intimacy loses more and more its miraculous character, until their antagonism, their disappointments, their mutual boredom kill whatever is left of the initial excitement. Yet in the beginning they do not know all this: in fact, they take the intensity of the infatuation, this being ‘crazy’ about each other, for proof of the intensity of their love, while it may only prove the degree of their preceding loneliness.”

There are two questions in every marriage. And I don’t mean why does my wife nag so much, or why is my husband so clueless. I am talking about the root problems that cause many if not all of those little problems. I read a post called “2 questions” very recently. It was describing two questions that people ask: “Can I do it?” and “Am I worth it?”. His article states that the question that drives a man to do just about anything is “Can I do it?”. The question that drives the woman is “Am I worth it?”. To go into the details of his article read it here. I will briefly summarize.

“Can I do it?”

Man’s obsession in life is what can I conquer or accomplish. We often pride ourselves in our working ability, sporting ability, and whatever else we might be good at. A man values himself by those things.

“Am I worth it?”

Most women want to know one thing in a relationship, that is that they are loved above all else. She wants to know that the man in her life loves her, appreciates her, and cares for her.

I think many affairs could be avoided by answering these two questions the right way. If a man can’t do something well enough at home he may try somewhere else. Same with a woman, if she does not feel loved at home she may accept love from someone who lets her know how important she is. Of course, sometimes this never leads to adultery, sometimes it just leads to unhappy relationships. Remember men, putting anything in this world above your wife is telling her that she is not worth it.

“Two answers from the word of God”

So we have two questions. If every man and woman does in fact ask these questions, then surly they are important enough to have answers in the word of God. Ephesians 5:22-33 speaks about the husband and wife. The first command to the husband and the first to the wife answer the two root questions. Men love your wives; women submit to your husbands.

Love today is not like the love in the Bible. What most people call love today is actually passion, or infatuation. Love in the KJV Bible is often translated charity. Back then love was not passion but action. Love requires doing something. It says that men should love their wives as Christ loves the church. If you look at the things that Christ does for the church it makes our so called “love” look childish. So what actions are included in love? To be honest I don’t know everything that God intended us to do, but I do know this: More than one time in the Bible God says he loves us therefore he GAVE. So one thing I can say is that we as husbands should give, our time, our effort, our affection, and whatever else it takes to show our wives that they are more important to us than anything (except God). Do this and you will always be telling her she is worth it.

Submitting to a husband sounds like a dirty phrase in today’s world. A world where a woman is running for president. But, it is not as bad as you think. The Bible says the wife is like the church in her relationship with her husband, who is a representation of Christ. The church is not forced to submit to Christ, but chooses to submit themselves because of his love for them. Christ provides everything for the church therefore the church has no reason not to submit. If you submit to your husbands you are not obeying him, but following him. Submitting to your husband is just showing him that you trust his guidance. Showing him that, you are telling him that you think he can do anything, therefore, you are not worried when you follow him. Wives please show your husbands that they are your personal “superman” and that you would follow them anywhere.

“Final Thoughts”

The Bible does not give us the option based on what our spouse does. If your wife does not support you, you still love her. If your husband does not love you, you still have to follow him. Based on the word of God, I feel very comfortable in telling you that if you do your part, your husband or wife will 99% of the time start to do their part.

There are many questions that I have seen as I have looked around the internet about forgiveness. I decided to write a series on forgiveness to address many of the questions I have seen.

Maybe you have a question. Many questions I have seen and will answer in this series include:

1:)How could God ever forgive me after what I have done?

2:)Why does God forgive sins?

3:)Can I ever do something that God will not forgive?

4:)Why do people go to Hell?

And hopefully many more questions will be answered in this 3 part series.

Please read about the forgiveness of God

Part 1 When God forgave man

Part 2 Who did God forgive?

Part 3 If God forgave man, why do people go to Hell?

Most professing Christians today, at least in America, have never faced this thing called suffering. In fact many believe that becoming a Christian makes everything peachy in life.

Biblical Christianity is far from a peachy life. The reason Christians do not suffer as much in America as Paul and others did is that Christians do not stand up for the truth of the Gospel. Probably because most don’t know the truth. Today’s “Christianity” is an easy one, “abc or 123″ and you have it. Witnessing consists of nothing more than asking someone to come to church (because most don’t know enough of the word of God to be a witness themselves), salvation consists of simply praying a prayer any time you choose and being baptized, and being”Christ like” only matters on Sundays. If there were more to Christianity than what we see today then there would be suffering.

For the true follower of Christ, suffering is not a possibility it is a certainty and a privilege (Phil 1:29). The apostle Paul invited suffering in his life, Phil 3:10 he says “That I may know…the fellowship of his sufferings”.

Christians in America need to change their thinking. A man that realizes that temporal things are not important and lay up treasures in heaven (Matt 6:20) would have a powerful impact on the lives around him. We need to challenge people as Christians, shaking the foundations that their faith is grounded in. Many professing Christians need to check their own foundations. I thought I was saved for years before someone challenged my faith. They told me things in the word of God that I could not refute. The things they told me went against what I had my faith grounded in. If it had not been for that person shaking my foundation I would not have found out that it was faulty.

Tell people the truth, invite suffering in your life. Tell someone that there is nothing they can do to earn salvation. Tell them that Christ finished the work of salvation when he put away sin (Heb 9:26) and all that’s left is to trust in the living savior. Tell someone that there is not a prayer that can save, there is not a baptismal pool that can save, and there is not one good work that can save. Tell them the truth, that only true faith allows salvation to take place, nothing more and nothing less. Tell them this and you will suffer for Christ’s sake and blessed are they that suffer (Matthew 5).

Two choices

1.) Invite his suffering into your life by standing on truth

2.) Do nothing

The choice is yours!